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Leaders are most vulnerable when they are introducing change. And guess what leaders spend most of their time doing? You guessed it—introducing change! It’s no wonder leadership can be intimidating.

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There are a few predictable problems that often stall out, short circuit or completely crush many of our best ideas for improvement. Once you see them, you’ll probably recognize them.

If you want your next change effort to succeed, pay attention to these three common pitfalls:

1. You don’t know what problem you’re solving

I’ve messed this one up so many times. The problem with being the point leader for any organization is you know way too much about what is going on—or better known as, “The Curse of Knowledge.” You are so intimately acquainted with the issues that you don’t know what it’s like to be ignorant of the problem. You don’t know how to articulate the problem because you haven’t lived in the customer’s shoes. You assume that the problem is obvious to everyone, but it’s not. They only see the results of the problem, and they may not even realize there is a problem.

Remember, humans are drawn to the status quo. Unless they feel, see, and experience the problem like you do, they will have zero motivation to solve it.

Because of this, my church’s multi-site journey took a long time. I knew in my heart that unless we planted a ministry presence closer to the city, we would never expand our overall reach; we would be capped in our effectiveness as a church. I was not willing to accept this outcome.

But, I had trouble defining the problem in a way that others could understand. We eventually found our way and have multi-site in our DNA. However, in hindsight, we could have gone so much faster if I would have taken the time to clarify the problem we were trying to solve.

Unless you can create an urgent need for people to help solve a crystal clear problem, your change effort is likely to stall out.

Unless you can create an urgent need for people to help solve a crystal clear problem, your change effort is likely to stall out. Click To Tweet

2. You haven’t done your homework

I recently performed yet another bonehead stunt at my church. We had just resurfaced the parking lot at one of our campuses and we were having some trouble with speeding cars cutting through to the neighboring coffee shop. While we want to be kind, it’s not an expressway. So, we decided to install some speed bumps.

We hired a company, commissioned the work and voila! We had speed bumps, but these suckers turned out ginormous. In an effort to defend our decision, I decided to drive my VW through the parking lot to prove that it was going to be just fine. But, it wasn’t. My car bottomed out as did every other car that came to church the following Sunday. One guy almost broke his neck when his head hit the roof of his truck. #funnynotfunny.

We had a potential momentum problems on our hands. If people can’t get their cars in the parking lot, well…you know the rest.

Why did this happen? I didn’t realize there was more than one size of speed bump, and I didn’t bother to do any homework on it. Thankfully, we got them removed immediately and installed a less violent version—all is well. But I promise you, on all future projects, our team is going to pause to do a little homework.

3. You haven’t worked the circles

Once again, I am speaking from my failures here. These lessons are so vivid to me because learning them was so painful.

The idea of “working the circles” could be compared to the game of Leapfrog.

If you’re in ministry at a church, this happens frequently. We leap over one circle of people in order to get to the next, bigger circle. For example, we get in a room with an Executive Team and come up with a great plan for changing the world. Then, we step up on stage and announce it to the Sunday attendees.

It sounds ridiculous, but it is so common. What we miss is taking it to the elders, the staff, the leaders, the members, and THEN taking it to the entire church. Marc Estes, a friend from City Bible Church in Portland, Oregon, taught me to “park it in a circle until everybody gets it.” Only then are we ready to move on.

The problem with this idea is PATIENCE. And I have a patience deficiency. Somehow I don’t naturally see that if we are going to move faster, we have to process more fully in each circle.

One of my mentors, Steve Stroope of Lakepointe Church in Dallas, Texas, has a great practice that illustrates the power of this principle. In their monthly Elder meeting, he reviews the staffing changes that have happened in their organization with the Elders so they are aware of the relational dynamics in the church when things arise. This avoids potential tension and honors the Elders as an important “circle” in the church. Though Steve has the authority to hire and dismiss, his communication to the Elders helps them to feel involved. As they say, “People are down on what they’re not up on.”

My hope is that you’ll take these lessons to heart, strengthen your leadership and succeed wildly in your efforts.

Gabe Kolstad -

Gabe is the Lead Pastor at Westside Community Church in the Portland, Oregon area where he serves with his best friends. He has had the privilege of leading Westside through a number of exciting changes, from turnaround to relocation to multi-site. Gabe has a dream for seeing new churches planted, and a passion for connecting with leaders to make a difference in Portland and the Northwest. He is a trainer, a coach to pastors. Gabe is married to his Jr. High sweetheart, Melissa, and they have 3 children: Dawson, Caitlin, and Caleb. They love great food, traveling and finding new adventures together.

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