1. You don’t know what problem you’re solving
Unless you can create an urgent need for people to help solve a crystal clear problem, your change effort is likely to stall out.Unless you can create an urgent need for people to help solve a crystal clear problem, your change effort is likely to stall out. Click To Tweet
2. You haven’t done your homework
I recently performed yet another bonehead stunt at my church. We had just resurfaced the parking lot at one of our campuses and we were having some trouble with speeding cars cutting through to the neighboring coffee shop. While we want to be kind, it’s not an expressway. So, we decided to install some speed bumps. We hired a company, commissioned the work and voila! We had speed bumps, but these suckers turned out ginormous. In an effort to defend our decision, I decided to drive my VW through the parking lot to prove that it was going to be just fine. But, it wasn’t. My car bottomed out as did every other car that came to church the following Sunday. One guy almost broke his neck when his head hit the roof of his truck. #funnynotfunny.
We had a potential momentum problems on our hands. If people can’t get their cars in the parking lot, well…you know the rest.
Why did this happen? I didn’t realize there was more than one size of speed bump, and I didn’t bother to do any homework on it. Thankfully, we got them removed immediately and installed a less violent version—all is well. But I promise you, on all future projects, our team is going to pause to do a little homework.
- 10 Keys to Leading Change in a Church
- The Agile Church: 5 Ways to Lead Through Change
- The Unstuck Church: Equipping Churches to Experience Sustained Health
3. You haven’t worked the circles
Once again, I am speaking from my failures here. These lessons are so vivid to me because learning them was so painful.
The idea of “working the circles” could be compared to the game of Leapfrog. If you’re in ministry at a church, this happens frequently. We leap over one circle of people in order to get to the next, bigger circle. For example, we get in a room with an Executive Team and come up with a great plan for changing the world. Then, we step up on stage and announce it to the Sunday attendees. It sounds ridiculous, but it is so common. What we miss is taking it to the elders, the staff, the leaders, the members, and THEN taking it to the entire church. Marc Estes, a friend from City Bible Church in Portland, Oregon, taught me to “park it in a circle until everybody gets it.” Only then are we ready to move on.
The problem with this idea is PATIENCE. And I have a patience deficiency. Somehow I don’t naturally see that if we are going to move faster, we have to process more fully in each circle.
One of my mentors, Steve Stroope of Lakepointe Church in Dallas, Texas, has a great practice that illustrates the power of this principle. In their monthly Elder meeting, he reviews the staffing changes that have happened in their organization with the Elders so they are aware of the relational dynamics in the church when things arise. This avoids potential tension and honors the Elders as an important “circle” in the church. Though Steve has the authority to hire and dismiss, his communication to the Elders helps them to feel involved. As they say, “people are down on what they’re not up on.”
My hope is that you’ll take these lessons to heart, strengthen your leadership and succeed wildly in your efforts. I’d love to hear about your experiences with leading change – post a comment so we can connect.